I know it's dark right now. I know it feels like there will never be sunlight again. But I promise you, it will come. It will be slow. It will take it's time. You will feel joy again, you will see that sunlight shining down on you. It might feel wrong the first time you do. But it's okay. Most things need sunlight to grow. You have lost so much already. So please, please do not lose yourself. Do not lose yourself in the depths of your grief. Do not think that you have to "move on" from this tragedy. Smiling, laughing, enjoying things, are NOT signs that you have stopped loving or missing your baby. They are signs that your love is eternal. Signs that you are strong. You are loved. Your baby is loved. Most importantly, you are NOT alone. Be gentle with yourself. Deep breaths.